Parshat Vayishlach
Everyone has fears. Most will admit it. Some will do their utmost to hide it. Those who are foolish will sweep it under the rug.
What advice does Judaism give on how to deal with our fears and challenges?
In this week's Torah portion of Vayishlach, we read how our forefather Jacob had to face his greatest nemesis and fear, his brother Esav (Esau). Jacob was not a child or a petty teenager. He was a husband to four, father of 12, a wealthy millionaire, and perhaps most importantly, had already faced many challenges and difficulties and emerged victorious.
The Torah describes his plan to deal with Esav in a very detailed and meticulous manner. As with all the stories of the Torah, this servos as a lesson and teaching to us, his children.
First, Yakov would make overtures of peace and self-nullification. He would send monetary gifts with warm words and accolades to soften his brother. He would not be boastful or egotistic. He would do everything necessary to make it work; provided that security was provided.
Second, he prepared for the worst; war. He made an emergency plan and had all the necessary resources, and arms to defend his family and deal with crises.
Third, he prayed. Not some meaningless words said by rote. But a deep, meaningful and empowering prayer to the ruler of the universe.
Yakov then faces Esav empowered, secure and grounded.
So too, in life when we face challenges, we must learn from this important lesson on the Torah. First, we must do everything to defuse the situation. Second, we must prepare for the worst and make a solid plan for providing for ourselves and our loved ones, with security, dealing with our challenges (financially, psychologically, and emotionally) and overcoming the obstacles. And finally, we must have a deep, meaningful and inspiring relationship with Hashem.
This ensures our success, as with our forefather Jacob.
Shabbat Shalom.
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