Good Communication - Matot-Masei

Good Communication
Matot-Masei 

This week’s Torah portion will see us conclude the book of Numbers- Bamidbar. In the closing portions of Matot-Masei we read about a fascinating disagreement that threatens to splinter the Jewish community. 

The background to this disagreement is important. The tribes of Reuvain and Gad were blessed with much cattle. As a result, they needed fertile land for their animals to graze. The land of the East bank of the Jordan river was perfect for them. As the Jews were about to enter the land of Israel (west of the Jordan river), these two tribes requested that they be allowed to keep their current land outside of Israel (the East bank of the Jordan). Moshe reacts harshly, accusing them of abandoning the quest to enter Israel, and not wanting to fight alongside their brethren to conquer the Holy Land. 

But after a meeting of Moses and the parties involved, it is clear that intentions had been pure all along. The tribes of Reuvain and Gad would not only partake but would lead the Jews into battle and not return home until the entire land was conquered and apportioned (which took some 14 years). The ruffled feathers were soothed, misunderstanding were clarified, the anger subsided and everyone lived happily ever after. 

Moshe had been concerned about a repeat of the previous disasters, when the Jews did not listen to Hashem''s word. These tribes could have worded their request differently, allaying any fears. It really was a lack of proper communication. 

In today's age of social media, emails, texting and messaging, direct and open communication is needed more than ever. No keyboard or communication app can or ever will replace the human connection.